You'd think reaching orgasm within the first two minutes of sex would be hot, right? Wrong—when it's the only way it happens. For many women globally, cumming too soon is a guilt-riddled, shame-inducing problem that has plagued them for most of their adult lives. Most women reach climax anywhere between five and 20 minutes into sex. Here, one woman tells her story—of premature cumming, of trying to explain it to her husband, and of overcoming her demons, once and for all. If you yourself are struggling with sexual dysfunction , do book an appointment with a specialist and know you are not alone.
I reach orgasm too quickly
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I am 21 and in a relationship with another woman. We have been together for a year and our sex life is great. However, I reach my orgasm very quickly, generally within five minutes of clitoral stimulation. Is this normal? This does not only occur with her; it even happens when I masturbate. Can I train myself not to orgasm as quickly? I would not consider this abnormal, rather an indication that you know your own body well, and your lovers are skilled — although it's worth mentioning that if you tend to use a vibrator it may lead you to orgasm faster than your sexual response would normally build.
Not So Fast: Women Who Have Premature Orgasms Explain How They Deal
Make room! We have another female " sexual dysfunction " to add to the list. The first and only study on female premature orgasm has found that 40 percent of the women surveyed experienced rapid climax at least once in their sexual life, with around 3 percent chronically reaching orgasm too soon.
The situation is similar to premature ejaculation in men, but has not been as widely studied. In , the journal Sexologies published a study that investigated how common premature orgasm was among a group of Portuguese women between the ages of 18 and Using a special questionnaire, the scientists asked the women to report if they reached orgasm too soon and, if they did, how often this happened. The women were also welcome to share their comments. Fourteen percent had them frequently.