Every product is independently selected by obsessive editors. Things you buy through our links may earn us a commission. When I joined Tinder this summer, more guys approached me in the first week than had approached me my whole life. Also, I always thought Tinder was all about sex.
I was 16, a size 14 and it was —long before body positivity hit the mainstream or my Tumblr feed. Now, as a year-old woman wearing a size 20, sex has changed year after year as my body has gotten bigger and the dating pool has gotten smaller. Before fucking someone new, I feel the need to address my fatness before we meet. I think this is what some guys were hoping would happen too. Avoiding belly touching makes it all the more obvious that the belly is there. If you want to fuck me, fuck all of me.